THE CASE FOR SENSITIVITY
Delivering bad news to cheating spouse victims
Many cases at Martin Investigative Services involve women who suspect their their husband may be cheating on them. While not all of these cases result in confirmation of a cheating spouse, a lot of them do.
Delivering the bad news can be challenging, but it’s important to do so in a way that is sensitive to what the person is going through, and then get that person any psychological or legal help they may need, so that they can get a divorce and move forward with their life.
A transcript of the video follows:
One of the important things about picking a private investigator is to make sure that private investigator has some sensitivity about the bad news that he may bring to a client.
One of the cases that I try and tell the younger investigators or any investigators that are just starting out that can be very, very difficult to handle and that is when you have a woman and you tell her the bad news that her husband was just at the no-tell motel with Mary Lou.
Most of the women do not take this news very well and you can understand why. I describe it as taking a piece of Lladro off the Empire State building and dropping it. When it hits it shatters in a million pieces.
This was really brought home to me earlier on in my career when I brought in a woman on Monday morning and showed her the video tape and showed her the reports from our investigators. She literally, for the first time in my career, I saw somebody actually throw-up right in front of me because she was so sick.
That is an extreme case that has happened maybe twenty-five to thirty times of the thousands that we have had.
I think that particular case brings home you better have some sense of being able to comfort a person in that regard and them being able to get them the right psychological and lawyer help so that they bring the marriage to an end with some good finality.
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